10 Tips for Consistent Exercise That Actually Work

The intention-behaviour gap for exercise is one of the most interesting psychological phenomena to study (in my opinion). We set goals, go to bed with the best intentions to exercise in the morning. But then…we don’t.

An intention is a precondition for behaviour. If someone does not intend to exercise, I can accurately predict that they will not. But if they do have the positive intention, it does not guarantee that they will. Nor does it guarantee that they will do it consistently.

If you struggle with acting on your good intentions, you’re not alone. In fact, the biggest barrier in fitness isn’t lack of knowledge—it’s inconsistency. People don’t struggle because they’re lazy or weak-willed. They struggle because most fitness plans assume motivation is always going to be high. Spoiler: It isn’t.

So, how do you stay consistent with exercise, even when motivation drops, life gets busy, or you’re not in the mood?

Here are 10 research-backed, real-world strategies to help you stop starting over.

1. Schedule It Like a Meeting

If it’s not on your calendar, it probably won’t happen. We put our priorities in the calendar. It sets up an automatic prompt. In the beginning, this is important. Treat your workout like any other non-negotiable appointment. Set a time, set a reminder, and build repetition into your week. Consistency isn’t about intensity—it’s about making the decision in advance.

2. Don’t Rely on Motivation. Make It Easier

Motivation is unstable. It ebbs and flows throughout the day. Because it is a moving target, it is hard to rely on. Instead of waiting to “get motivated,” lower the barrier. Shorten the workout. Remove setup steps. Rather than becoming more motivated, make it easier. The next tip explains why consistency is important.

3. Your Past Predicts Your Future

Every time you miss a workout, skipping gets easier. But every time you show up—even for five minutes—you reinforce the habit of action. Repetition creates identity. You’re not just exercising; you’re becoming someone who exercises.

4. Make It Convenient

Proximity matters. If your workout requires too much effort to begin (commute, setup, complicated gear), you’re fighting inertia before you even start. Keep it simple and accessible—home workouts, minimal equipment, visible cues.

5. Avoid Friction Points

Forgot your clothes? Can’t find the dumbbells? Too much clutter? These little moments of friction add up. Prepare your space and gear, and plan ahead of time so your brain doesn’t have to negotiate with excuses.

One of the stickiest sports to be in is on the couch, watching television. It’s hard to pull yourself away from that. Instead, save it for after the workout if you intend to exercise that day.

6. Follow a Plan That Matches Your Current Fitness Level

Don’t choose a program designed for a more advanced version of yourself. That leads to burnout, injury, or frustration. Choose something that meets you where you are—physically and mentally—and builds gradually.

7. Don’t Let Emotions Make the Decision

Some days you’ll feel unmotivated, tired, or self-critical. That’s normal. The most consistent exercisers act despite how they feel. Emotion makes it harder, but not impossible.

Many people I speak with say they experience low confidence, shame, guilt, and frustration when they think about working out. I ask them if they exercised consistently for six months, would they still feel these emotions? The answer is always either no, or that the emotion would not be as strong. These things are temporary and will resolve with consistency.

8. Set Identity Goals, Not Outcome Goals

Instead of saying “I want to lose 10 pounds,” try “I’m becoming the type of person who moves daily.”

Why? Because identity-based goals tap into long-term self-concept, and those stick better than short-term outcomes.

Instead of saying, “What do I want, what am I going to do?” say, “Who do I want to be, and what does that person do?” Act like you are an exerciser until it becomes true.

9. Don’t Expect Major Weight Loss From Exercise Alone

Exercise is incredible for your brain, mood, strength, and long-term health. But it’s not that effective for weight loss on its own. If you expect big changes on the scale, you might be disappointed. Focus on function, energy, and consistency instead.

10. Action Builds Confidence

The other day, someone told me that they wanted to achieve a certain weight before they would be confident they could go to the gym. I told them, imagine that I wanted to wait until I was a certain weight or shape before asking a person out that I really liked. Sure, I might be happier with myself, but confidence would come from actually asking the person (or people) out.

While getting to a certain weight may make you feel better, recognise that confidence doesn’t come before action; it comes from action. You don’t need to believe in yourself to get started. You need to get started to believe in yourself.