6 (other) reasons women love broke men

A broke man with money is every woman’s dream.

You read that right. Yes, women want a financially stable man but at a certain point this stops being ‘enough’.

This is when a woman could leave her rich man or start an affair with a broke man.

Others simply want a man for his character and are willing to be with him in the brokenness.

Here are six reasons, other than the infamous sexual prowess and availability, that draw women to broke men.

1. They are relaxed

They don’t let money define their relationship with her. Once the woman accepts him in his condition, his value is set for him.

He will focus on giving her pleasure, and time and being romantic.

2. They focus on her

They are less distracted when with a woman.

They pride themselves on ‘having’ her despite her knowing their situation or having a better-off partner.

So they focus on an excellent performance to keep her or even win her over.

4. They are bad boys

Broke men tend to have a rugged bad boy aura with nothing to lose. Or it could be a woman’s rebellious streak to go for a broke man.

They also tend to have a reputation for being players which makes them a battlefield for whoever gets them to settle.

If it is an affair, the risk makes them even more appealing. The woman might even compare a broke man to a rich man based on character or qualities that are more appealing than money.

5. They are free and wild

Being broke can actually play in their favour sometimes.

They are usually jacks of all trades, know their way around situations, circumstances, and things, in bids of survival or having no money to pay for services.

They are not tied down and thus appear free and wild, the exact picture a woman may want in an affair or in a partner.

6. Fix-uppers

Women have a reputation for being fixers. Some believe in ‘growing’ with a man. Being part of a broke man’s journey can be fulfilling for some women.

It can be seen as an achievement or display of character and values.

Broke men have their attractions as well as rich men, none of which have anything to do with their financial situations. It is a matter of each person playing upon their strengths and a woman’s needs at any given time. However, this does not mean that the man in question is loved or wanted within his circumstances or for them.

Relationships are ultimately based on personal choices, values and understanding.